Being a wedding godmother: elegance, symbolism and style
Being a wedding godmother is an honour. But it is also a great responsibility — not only because of the symbolic role she plays during the ceremony, but because her image will inevitably be linked to the memory of that day. The challenge? To shine with elegance, without overshadowing the bride.
In the balance between sobriety and sophistication, jewellery plays a key role. Choosing well does not mean wearing more, but selecting pieces that bring light, enhance the face, complement the dress and express personality. Because at a wedding — as in life — details speak volumes.
At Salvatore Plata, we believe in jewellery with soul: pieces designed to accompany each godmother’s unique style. Earrings with character, necklaces that frame a neckline with intention, bracelets and rings that complete a look without overwhelming it. Jewellery created to enhance without interfering, to add without dominating.
In this post, we guide you through choosing the ideal jewellery for a wedding godmother — and, as always, we share the key elements to ensure every decision truly makes sense.
Earrings: the statement jewel for a wedding godmother with her own style
If there is one piece of jewellery capable of completely transforming the face and elevating any look, it is undoubtedly earrings. At Salvatore Plata, earrings are not only the star accessory for a wedding godmother — they are the central piece around which everything comes together.
Why? Because they frame the face, interact with the hairstyle and catch the light with every movement. Unlike necklaces, which can sometimes compete with a dress neckline, earrings adapt naturally and create presence without feeling intrusive.
That said, not all earrings work in the same way. Style, size and finish must be carefully chosen, taking into account the type of ceremony, the overall look and, above all, the godmother’s personality.
For high buns or polished updos, long earrings — such as chandelier styles, chains or articulated designs with cubic zirconia — are an excellent choice. They add sophistication, verticality and that serene elegance expected from such a prominent figure in the celebration. Some Salvatore Plata designs feature pearls and star motifs, combinations of coloured stones in rich tones such as amethyst, ruby or sapphire blue, or geometric gold-plated designs that stand out without feeling heavy.
When the hair is worn loose, stud earrings are a safe and stylish choice.
Designs with controlled volume, organic shapes or architectural details — such as those proposed by Salvatore Plata this season — help frame the face without competing with the natural movement of the hair. From baroque pearls to enamelled flowers in bold colours or gold-plated pieces with a silky texture, these earrings add presence and balance with a minimal gesture.
And, as always, the key lies in balance. If the dress features volume or a highly statement fabric, it is best to opt for cleaner, more understated earrings. If the look is minimalist or in neutral tones, you can elevate it with a more distinctive design or even a touch of colour.
And if you need more inspiration for bridal looks, you can also explore our dedicated post on earrings for wedding guests.
When the necklace takes centre stage: choosing the perfect piece for each neckline
Although at Salvatore Plata we favour earrings as the main focus of a godmother’s look, there are occasions when a dress clearly calls for a statement necklace. When this happens, choosing the right piece can completely transform the outfit. The key is to harmonise the neckline with the necklace design.
For U-shaped, sweetheart or halter necklines, chokers or short necklaces elegantly frame the neck with sophistication.
On the other hand, V-necklines favour vertical lines: delicate chains, elongated pendants, or “Y”-shaped pieces that elongate and flatter the neckline.
Materials? Sterling silver, white cubic zirconia, freshwater cultured pearls, or stones in soft or intense tones, depending on the outfit you choose. Shine should be present, but in a refined way.
Remember: if the necklace shines on its own, let the earrings play a supporting role. Small studs, delicate hoops, or even skipping them entirely can be the best way to maintain balance — just like the pieces from the Héritière and Wedding collections.
And if the dress is minimalist, don’t hesitate to go for a bold set that plays with volume, like the Grace J collection.
The ideal wedding godmother ring: discreet, coordinated, and intentional
Although it doesn’t always take centre stage, the ring is the piece that elegantly accompanies every gesture. In a godmother’s look, it should harmonise with the rest of the ensemble — without competing with earrings or a necklace — while adding a personal and distinguished touch.
Our recommendation is to choose a ring that dialogues with the other jewellery, whether through the type of stone, colour, shape, or texture. It can be a piece from the same collection as the earrings or necklace, or one that shares a clear unifying theme.
A dress with classic lines? Opt for a ring with white or softly coloured stones or cubic zirconia.
A bolder look? Choose geometric shapes, more intense colours, or matte textures.
And remember: in a godmother’s look, a single well-chosen ring can be more impactful than wearing several. The key is that it complements, enhances, and reflects the wearer’s personality, without tipping into excess.
Wedding godmother jewellery for daytime or evening ceremonies: finding the right sparkle
The timing of the ceremony influences much more than the lighting — it also affects jewellery choices. Choosing pieces according to the time of day not only brings harmony to the outfit but also shows sensitivity to context and attention to detail.
For daytime weddings, the ideal pieces are luminous yet restrained. Soft, muted, or pastel tones prevail, often with matte or satin finishes. Natural stones, pearls, and white or light-coloured cubic zirconia are always a safe bet, especially when set in sterling silver plated with gold or rhodium. The goal is to convey freshness, delicacy, and natural elegance without losing sophistication.
For afternoon or evening weddings, the dress code allows for a bolder approach. This is the time for intense sparkle, deep-coloured cubic zirconia, more structured designs, or statement pieces. In this case, plays of light take centre stage, and jewellery can become the focal point of the outfit — especially if the dress is understated or features minimalist lines.
The importance of trying, feeling… and choosing quality in a piece of jewellery
A piece of jewellery may look stunning in a photo, but it’s only when you try it on that you discover if it’s truly yours. Seeing how it reacts to light, how it complements your face, neckline, or hairstyle… this is all part of the selection process. Because it’s not just about matching — it’s about feeling yourself while wearing it.
At Salvatore Plata, we know that connection cannot be forced. That’s why we always recommend visiting one of our official distributors (you can find your nearest store using our locator), where you can try on different models, receive personalised advice, and find the piece that elevates your godmother look.
And if you prefer to explore our collections from home, you can browse our online catalogue, featuring high-quality, certified 925 sterling silver jewellery designed to accompany you on special occasions.
Because a carefully chosen piece of jewellery does more than complete an outfit — it becomes part of the memory.
